They last until they don't. Kind of like my coolant pump still going fine at 252k miles (406k km). 260k km is only ~162k miles. That's when I replaced my (1BA standard) dampers the first time (but the rears were pretty shot by that point) as well as the front control arms. The dampers looked fine, but I could tell from the body roll something was not like new. When I took them off, a kid could have played them like an accordion, they had no resistance in them.
And there's nothing "magnetic" about them. They are adaptive dampers, and that's done by adjustable valving, not by magnetic fluid. Only the RS3, TT RS, and R8 have the magnetic dampers. And the Mk4 RS3 dropped magnetic dampers for "DCC", which is just a "normal" adaptive damper. B and C segment RS special suspension is the turn of the century DRC system, though now with 3-level adjustable dampers.
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