I just completed a retrofit trailer hitch installation and have definitive part numbers, since there's not much concise information for this, as Audi won't release part number info.
I called Audi USA asking for the part numbers for the trailer module and the harness that connects the module to the hitch lighting plug; they [literally] refused to give those numbers, saying that they [must] be bought as a package (their package is damn near $1K).
I found a harness 500 miles from me (made by westfalia) and emailed them to see if I could buy the harness before resorting to drive 1000 miles round trip; they refused, saying the harness is proprietarily made for Audi and they couldn't "legally" sell it themselves.
Anywho, this is everything you need.
Both the 80A092115 hitch and 80A092115B hitch are the same hitch, just with different plugs. 80A092115B is also the designation for the ENTIRE hitch kit from Audi.
Harness is Wesfalia #305 514 321 003
Module is 4M0 907 383 F
Once it's all installed, you need to recode via VCDS otherwise errors will be rampant. Follow the thread at this link https://forums.ross-tech.com/index.php?threads/16174/ Refer to Ahorvath's coding in the FIFTEENTH post in that thread. (second from bottom of thread.)
Hope this helps!
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